Friday, April 11, 2008

Milano memories


Last year has come and gone and where was I??? What does one do when they haven't written a blog in 6 months. Can anyone really remember every detail in the past six months of their life?? There are parts of last year that I would just assume forget. But I'll stick with the positive.
I had that trip to Italy and a beautiful memory since my last posting. Che fantastico fosse il mio viaggio!! A week in Milano....a little business and then fun. Hung out with some fellow ASW members. What a nice group of people. I didn't know what to expect after posting a thread for information; however everyone was incredibly helpful. But then again, they're Italian so I shouldn't be too surprised. Considering it was November in Milano, the weather stayed fairly nice. It was cold but not unbearable and I was prepared for unbearable. There were quite a few warm days and I just told everyone that I brought the sun with me from California. One day, I took the train to Torino. It was the first time for me to be in Torino. I promised my friends that when I was in Rome, we would see each other. I like to keep my promises. I couldn't have been happier to see my dear friends Dario and his fiance Tatiana. For the past 4 years we have grown accustomed to seeing each other in Filicudi ...this place is one of the most beautiful islands just two hours away from Palermo in Sicilia. We all tried to incorporate so much in one night. Funny!! Some other friends passed by: Roberto (Tatiana's brother) and his girlfriend Cristina who made her way to living in Torino from Spain. She speaks Italian with a Spanish accent and she told me I speak Italian with a Florence accent. Well that ought to make my Italian teacher happy since he's from the Florence area. LOL!!Guess I adapt the accent that the Italian person that I happen to be around. God, I don't think I can adapt a Sicilian accent. Besides my friend wouldn't forgive me.
I digress....Torino is a quaint town. I haven't seen such colorful leaves on the trees since I was a child growing up in Newport, Rhode Island. I could see every color on each leaf of the tree. (See photo) Che bello!! In some respects Torino appears large but on the other hand it appears everyone knows everyone else. For example. After my friend Dario came to pick me up from the train station, we passed by the building where he works and he waved to a man walking down the street. It turns out to be his boss. He joked about not wanting to go to work the next day because I was visiting but now he would have to since his boss saw him. His plot of calling sick was temporarily ruined. Tatiana (D's fiance) arrived shortly at their home. We had probably been at the house 15 minutes. She came in and said, "Dario your boss called me and told me you were in the car with a woman with curly hair! And she looks at me and says "Ciao Bella Amica!!!" Well clearly news travels fast in this town. D & T took me on a tour of the city and then we picked up their beautiful daughter Greta from school. I have never met a little girl who looked like a star before. This little girl looks like a star from the 40's. Her features are absolutely beautiful. At Greta's school, I felt like the jolly green giant because the nuns were barely as tall as the 5 year olds. This was the first year Greta wasn't shy to talk to me. I was so happy. I'm sure she was more comfortable in "her territory" and she was very happy to let me have her bed to sleep in for the night. We ordered Chinese food in Torino for dinner. I have to say it is still strange for me to be in Italy and see Chinese people speaking Italian. The food was good!! Different from the Chinese food I know but still very good. After dropping Greta off at school the next morning, we went to the Film & Television museum. It's a fairly new museum and D & T were very interested in seeing the museum. We regressed to children in the museum and has the best time together. I'm happy for the fact that our friendship maintains a closeness no matter how much time has passed by and the distance that separates us.
It's always hard to say goodbye to my dear friends but I promised to go back and visit again as long as Greta was a willing participant in allowing me to be a guest in her room. I still had a few people left to spend time with Milano. I won't get to everyone this trip; unfortunately.
My last night in Milano, I went to an opening of an art gallery with my friend Paolo. The gallery owner is an ex-soccer player from France. It was a very "red carpet" event. There were a lot of important people, all of the art gallery owners support each other. In fact I bumped into a gallery owner that I had met in Rome two years ago. We discovered at that time that he knew my friend Paolo. It's a small world. After the gallery gala there was a reception held at the Four Season Hotel and Mamma Mia.... what a spread of food they had. I ate slowly and had just a teaspoon of as much as I could. Along with good food, the conversation at my table was great. I am proud that I impressed everyone with my Italian; especially the very upscale Milan women. When I shared that my next destination was Rome; some of the women at the table did confess to me that they really liked Rome. AH!!! It's public knowledge now that Milan people secretly wish they could be in Rome where it's much easier to get around; however the names of those who spoke are withheld to protect the innocent. I have some very fond memories of this trip to Milano. It appears that my circle of friends in Milano has now grown so perhaps I will frequent there a bit more in the future. Next stop Roma!!

Wednesday, October 31, 2007

Vado in Italia!!

It's finally here. My departure. I am so looking forward to visiting with everyone as much as possible. It's going to be a great and stress free trip. Non vedo l'ora!! I can't wait. Eccomi Italia! Finalmente sono tornata!!

Sunday, October 28, 2007

Vado in Italia!!

I'm leaving for Italia in a few days. YEAH!! Okay, I'm excited finally. The list is getting shorter. My friend Paolo has sent me a text of his last minute requests of R & B music to get for him at Amoeba. Lucky for him it's only 4 CD's. Naturally it's "old school" R & B to add to his amazing collection. In Italy it appears to be very difficult to find "old school" music. At least the stuff Paolo likes. The days were moving slow but last week was a blur. I'll be on the plane on Thursday. NON VEDO L'ORA!! I'm crossing my fingers for the "business" part of this trip to come together because it would an opportunity to go back to Italy again and work in my profession. Now that would be dream come true. I still believe dreams can come true.

Sunday, October 21, 2007

Saturday's here and gone....

Funny how one thinks they have all the time in the world on the weekend. And poof! It's over. I really thought I'd get so much done today for my trip. Well, I got a few things done. I even had time to run another errand and go to the gym for a half hour (half hour is better than nothing). All this before dinner.

Dinner was at a favorite mexican restaurant Tlapazola. Great Oaxacan food at this place but I can't stand the parking. It's located in a little strip mall. Parking is always tricky because there is the 5pm dinner crowd (the senior citizens) which clearly need some time to get to their car and then there is the crowd going for Japanese/Korean or just sushi or the pizza delivery place is there too. We tried to park in the lot but without success and always an adventure. A woman in front of us couldn't figure out where she wanted to park her SUV. She had her signal on for one spot and then she decides she wants to take the other spot we were heading for. As our car is backing up, this elderly man with a patch on his eye and a cane gets out of the car and proceeds to claim the parking spot we're heading for. Can we say subtle? If the spot means that much then I say, "please take it." The irony was after we proceeded to park across the street. This woman driving the SUV, didn't take ANY of the spots. She drives away. NON CREDO! I still don't know what the big deal was. Fortunately, the margarita became way more important than the idiot drivers in L.A. A wonderful evening with an old and dear friend was perfect.

I never realized how much my friend loved Italy as much as I do. His favorite spot is Venice in the winter and he's never been south of Rome. He's not a big fan of Rome because it's "too big." If he hadn't told me about Venice first, then I would've categorized him with many Americans who love Florence and Tuscany. I will also forgive him for never having been South of Roma. Boy is he missing out. Clearly it has taken me yet another week to post this blog. This Saturday is already next Saturday and on to Sunday. Here and gone....

Thursday, October 18, 2007

Vado in Italia!!

Well my luck is changing because off I go to Italy next month. Non vedo l'ora!! (I can't wait). The best part is that I am going to celebrate the birthday of my Italian mamma. She's going to be 81 yrs old. What an amazing woman.
I have no idea how I'm going to see everyone but right now that's irrelevant. I'm going to Bella Italia! Yahoo!! This is the first time in fact : I realize as I write this that I have even got remotely excited. It hit me today that I'm leaving two weeks from today. I'm going to Milano and over to visit friends in Torino and then down to Roma where I will stay until my return. Mamma Mia ci sono tante cose da fare!! (there are a lot of things to do) I didn't dare get excited before because the trip seemed too far away to think at the time I bought the ticket. Naturally everything seems to come up all at once and I'm sure a job or two will too. My friends tell me to remember how short life is and to live it to the fullest because tomorrow is not promised. Italy here I come!!

Missing Italy

Boy do I have a "Jones" for Italy. I can't believe I haven't been there in over a year. No wonder I feel empty inside. There's something about this beautiful country that feeds my soul. Not going the usual time in August left me in a bit of a funk. At first I thought, " there is no way I can survive August in L.A." I really felt like an alien in my own country. I can't even remember August for the first time in 4 years. I know I more or less immersed myself in projects that would as least occupy my time with thoughts away from Italy. I would receive txt messages from my Italian friends on the island. They were kind enough to tell me how much they missed me. It was nice of them to keep me in their thoughts. I know they were having a blast! My Italian sister had a good time but left out the details so I wouldn't feel bad. When people asked me about my summer. My response was "What summer?" The sad thing was I didn't even step my toe into the Santa Monica ocean summer. In spite of the distance and the disappointing summer, I do feel connected with my Italian friends from this side of the world. Gotta pull that boot closer or at least create more opportunities to cross the ocean.

Trying to hang again...

I thought I could be a good blogger. NOT!! Haven't written on this since March maybe? Oh my! Maybe it's an insecurity that my life is not worth sharing. Hmmm. Rule number one of writing and comedians I think: Don't judge your own material.
I can see why people write blogs but I haven't decided if it's for me. On one hand, what a great way to express thyself. I have to admit ny/carribean ragazza and soon to be Expat friend has kept me so entertained along with in touch with what's going on with her. What a gift!!

So now that I've awaken from my long winter, spring and summer nap, perhaps I can give this another go. So here's another attempt to see if I can become a better blogger. If at first you don't succeed...etc. Not sure where that came from but I digress.